Flexibitily

Flexibility does not go hand in hand with friends on the autism spectrum. These kids are constantly looking for predictable, ever constant scenarios. When things don't go as planned, this often times set them spiraling out of control. Being flexible is a difficult style for them to embrace. It takes a lot of stories, planning, discussions, follow ups when things go well or not, and constant monitoring. This does get easier with time and practice. The kids may always look for routine, but they can learn to be somewhat flexible. Read on - Practice and as always.., Enjoy!

Many times during the day, there are things that I have to do at school. Even though I don't want to do these things, I must do them when my teachers ask me to. If I am not finished doing something, I can just put that work away for later. The work will still be waiting for me to finish it, but at a different time. 

When I am able to shift easily from one activity to another, that is called being flexible. It is important to be flexible throughout my life. Often times things don't  happen the way that I would like them to happen, or I am asked to do something that I don't want to do. I should always try my best to follow directions that my parents and teachers give me with a happy attitude. When I am flexible and cooperate, things will be pleasant. I will learn a lot and my teachers and parents will be thrilled!